Weekend Message | Stop Avoiding Your Feelings and Let God Heal Your Heart | Better Together on TBN

Welcome to the Weekend Message! 

It's always our pleasure to bring you quality presentations from some of the best Christian teachers in the world! Each video presentation can vary, but whatever the topic, you can be certain that it will be informative and Bible-based.

"Are you carrying a heavy heart?" This weekend's, episode of "Better Together." from TBN, "Stop Avoiding Your Feelings and Let God Heal Your Heart," tells us to remember that vulnerability is a strength created by God. Since our hearts often lead our minds, the path to wholeness involves letting God transform our inner world. 

By allowing Him to heal your hidden hurts, you open the door to a healthier, more vibrant life.

© Better Together on TBN

A healed heart is the foundation of total well-being, say Laurie Crouch, Dr. Anita Phillips, Dr. DeeDee Freeman, Sheila Walsh, and Blynda Lane. They advise confronting our emotions rather than turning away from them, modeled on Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane. 

Key Highlights: Don't Avoid Feelings, Surrender to God:

• Acknowledge & Process: Instead of numbing or running, you must face your pain, confess it to God, and bring your wounds (past or present) to Him.
• God Draws Near in Brokenness: Heartbreak isn't a sign of failure; it's often a catalyst that strips distractions and makes you realize your deep need for God, where His presence becomes strength.
• The Holy Spirit is Your Comforter: Jesus sent the Holy Spirit to live inside believers to comfort, guide, and empower them, not just to live through them.

Healing often happens in layers, over time, through God's persistent kindness. He provides victory through His Word, enabling a life of purpose and peace despite earthly challenges. And, you are created for victory, not fear; let God's fearless Spirit counter your fear. 

Get comfy, unwind, and soak in some inspiration. It’ll be worth your while!

May God richly bless you,

~Eve

Walking By Faith | The Divine Initiative - Chosen by God, Secured in Christ | John 6:37

"No sinner will ever come to Christ — unless the Father draws him and then he chooses Christ." - James Allwood Smith, 19th-century American Baptist preacher (1806-1882)

Introduction: Is a sudden interest in spiritual truth just a matter of human choice? Not according to John 6:37. Jesus explains that our spiritual journey is fueled by God’s active pursuit. 

Scripture Focus: "All those the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never drive away" - John 6:37, NIV throughout

Salvation originates with God the Father, who sovereignly draws individuals to Christ. Jesus explicitly promises to never reject or cast out anyone who comes to Him, emphasizing an irrevocable welcome and eternal security. 

This passage, therefore, interweaves God's powerful, initiating action (divine initiative) with the necessary, authentic human response of coming to Christ in faith. Ultimately, no one can come unless first drawn by the Father, but all who do come are guaranteed secure acceptance.

In this message, we will provide a brief overview of the "divine initiative" in the first half of John 6:37, which refers to God the Father’s sovereign action in bringing people to faith in Jesus Christ. Core principles of the divine initiative include:

• The Father's Gift and Jesus' Welcome: “All those the Father gives me” signifies God’s sovereign choice and provision of people to Jesus for salvation.
• No One Can Come Unless Drawn: God's Spirit actively draws people to Jesus (John 6:44, 65), enabling them to overcome their natural inclination and respond to the Gospel, as John 6:37 explains.
• Guaranteed Acceptance: I Will Never Cast Out: Those given by the Father will certainly come to Jesus; the outcome is guaranteed by God's power, not human ability.
• Never Cast Out: For anyone who comes to Christ, His promise ensures they are accepted forever. Based on John 6:37, Jesus guarantees He will never turn away or reject those who seek Him, offering believers the certainty of eternal safety.

The Divine Initiative: “All those the Father gives me will come to me” This first part of the verse highlights God’s sovereign involvement in salvation, reminding believers that coming to faith is not purely a human effort but an initiative of God's grace. In it we see:

• God at Work - The Father's divine influence is what inspires people to come to His Son, as stated in John 6:44. Consequently, the very presence of a desire to seek God is a powerful indication that He is actively working within our lives. 
• Humility in Salvation - Realizing that God sought us out first, rather than the other way around, keeps us humble. We have no grounds for pride, as our very ability to turn toward Jesus is a gift granted to us by the Father. 

"How can these principles be applied to improve our daily habits and decisions?" Acknowledge and be grateful for the presence of divine influence in your life, as it confirms that your personal faith is an integral piece of a greater, sacred design. 

In conclusion, God's act of giving individuals to the Son is the foundational divine initiative in salvation, ensuring their eventual faith; thus, human belief is a result of, not a precondition for, God's prior grace. 

Prayer: "Dear Lord, we thank You for the assurance in Your Word that all You give to Jesus will come to Him. We are humbled by the grace that draws us to Your Son and thank You for the free gift of salvation and Your certain acceptance. Amen."

Sincerely with the Grace of God,

Sloane

A Heart of Wisdom in a Fleeting Life

"Now is our chance to choose the right side. God is holding back to give us that chance. It won't last forever. We must take it or leave it."  - C. S. Lewis, British author, scholar, and prominent Christian apologist (1898-1963)

Opening Question: When faced with a challenge, do you tend to rely first on a Google search, a friend's advice, or prayer and scripture?

To live a worthwhile, regret-free life, we must use our time wisely with God's guidance. By examining Psalms 1 and 90 alongside Proverbs 3:5-6, we will discover how to live purposefully and rely on God’s wisdom through life's brevity and His constant direction.

Let's begin with: The Basis - Making Every Day Count.

Scripture Reading: "Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom." Psalm 90:12 NIV

The prayer in the psalm recognizes human fragility and finitude, mirroring the sentiment in James 4:14 NIV that life is merely a passing mist. By acknowledging our brief existence, we are prompted to prioritize eternal significance over fleeting worldly goals, which is the foundation of true wisdom. 

When we truly grasp life's fleeting nature, our priorities naturally shift from chasing "treasures on earth" that will fade to investing in things with lasting impact, such as building relationships, serving others, sharing our faith, and aligning our work with God's purposes.

Putting It into Practice:

• Begin and end each day with prayer and gratitude for the gift of life, seeking to live it in a way that honors God.
• Mindful living prioritizes core values and meaningful connections (spiritual concerns, relationships, higher purposes) over superficial distractions and selfish choices. 
• The understanding of the contrast between a limited human lifespan and God's eternal nature can lead to a sense of humility and an increased reliance on divine knowledge and power. 

Now we consider: The Path to Wisdom - Prayer and God's Word.

Scripture Reading: "Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:5-6 NIV

To gain a heart of wisdom, as requested in Psalm 90:12 (NIV), one must follow the instruction found in Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV). This requires an intentional reliance on God's guidance rather than solely on personal intellect, a path fostered through consistent prayer and engagement with the Bible. 

Consistent prayer and engaging with Scripture are the practical tools that build this trust, helping us hear God's voice and understand His perspective, prioritizing a higher, divine understanding over our inherently limited human viewpoint.

Putting It into Practice:

• Acknowledge God in all your ways, and trust in His direction. Pray for divine guidance before every choice.
• Daily Bible reading helps you understand God's will and make wise choices.  
• Identify areas you try to control (finances, relationships, career) and surrender them to God in prayer.
• Talk with trusted advisors, pastors, or friends who can provide safety and help discern God's direction. 

The final segment of our discussion will center on The Fruitful Life - Faithfulness.

Scripture Reading: "Blessed is the one who does not walk in step with the wicked or stand in the way that sinners take or sit in the company of mockers, but whose delight is in the law of the LORD, and who meditates on his law day and night. That person is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither— whatever they do prospers." Psalm 1:1-3 NIV

A life that honors God and is stable and purposeful can be achieved by acknowledging the brevity of life and seeking wisdom through prayer and scripture, which should lead to faithful living, characterized by righteous choices and spiritual fruitfulness. 

Constant engagement with scripture leads to "prospering" in everything one does—meaning their character and actions produce positive, lasting results (fruit). 

Putting It into Practice:

• We can practice mindfulness in our daily routines—like commuting and doing chores—by using these tasks for prayer or listening to sermons/podcasts. 
• Invest your time, energy, and resources in things that last: sharing the gospel, serving others, and nurturing relationships.
• Create space with weekly Sabbath or monthly solitude to evaluate goals and connect with God, fostering spiritual growth. 

In essence, implementing these strategies allows us to shift from mere existence to intentional living, cultivating wisdom and a faithful life that honors God

Prayer: "Dear Lord, teach us to value time and pursue Your wisdom daily. May Your favor establish the work of our hands as we follow You. In Jesus' name, Amen."

Yours in Christ,

Emily

Unending Mercy

"God’s mercy is so great that you may sooner drain the sea of its water, or deprive the sun of its light, or make space too narrow, than diminish the great mercy of God."  - Charles H. Spurgeon, influential 19th century English Particular Baptist preacher (1834-1892)

A new year typically ushers in a blend of emotions—anticipation for what lies ahead, consideration of previous experiences, and occasional worry regarding uncertainties. 

For those with faith, the reassuring news is that God does not abandon them to navigate the future independently, nor does He judge them exclusively by past shortcomings. His mercies are a perpetually flowing source of comfort and renewal.

This message, drawing its core truth from Lamentations 3:22-23, will examine how each new day presents an opportunity to walk in the abundance of God's unending compassion and faithfulness.

First Thoughts: 

• How does the idea that God's mercies are new every morning, as we begin this year, encourage you?
• How does the understanding that divine grace and compassion are "unfailing" or "never-ending" influence your perspective when approaching the difficulties and obstacles anticipated in 2026?

Divine Mercy Explained

Mercy is often defined as not receiving the punishment we deserve, while grace is receiving blessings we don't deserve. In a theological context, God's mercy is an active and compassionate expression of His nature. 

Psalm 103:8-12 provides a powerful illustration of the boundless extent of God's mercy, emphasizing that just "as far as the east is from the west," so is the reach of His compassion. 

And in Ephesians 2:4-5, because of His overwhelming mercy and profound love, God made us spiritually alive with Christ, rescuing us from the death of sin, which we couldn't do for ourselves.

Pause and Ponder:

• Read Psalm 103:8-12. What specific language or concepts effectively convey the boundless nature of God's mercy?
• How does recognizing our own need for mercy help us appreciate God's character more fully?

Embrace the Lord's Mercy That Meets You Every Morning

Lamentations 3:23 teaches that divine compassion is renewed "every morning," suggesting that God extends a fresh invitation for a daily, not a weekly, response. We are encouraged to receive a new portion of mercy each day rather than trying to store it up. 

Jesus instructed his followers to pray for "our daily bread" in Matthew 6:11. This petition symbolizes a request not only for our essential physical sustenance, but also for our daily need for spiritual nourishment, guidance, forgiveness, and mercy. 

According to 2 Corinthians 4:16, although our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. This renewal is tied to receiving God's power and perspective daily.

Pause and Ponder:

• How can we incorporate a daily pause to open ourselves to spiritual renewal each morning?
• How does the consistent, "daily" availability of mercy help individuals manage or mitigate chronic discouragement and anxiety?

Walking the Walk: Daily Mercy in 2026

When we accept God's mercy, it ought to transform our interactions with others, compelling us to channel the same compassion we have been shown.

Jesus teaches in Matthew 5:7 that those who extend kindness and forgiveness to others, just as God extends it to them, are truly blessed and will be met with that same grace. 

In Colossians 3:12-13 we are told to be compassionate, kind, humble, gentle, and patient with each other, forgiving wrongs because God forgave us.

Pause and Ponder:

• Where do you see opportunities in 2026 to show mercy to others—whether in your personal life, career, or local area—even when it feels "undeserved"?
• How can we encourage and uplift one another in our shared commitment to demonstrating mercy?

Parting Thoughts

As we start this new year, let's remember that God's mercies are constant. Every day offers a new chance to experience His kindness and share that same grace with others. Let's embrace His lasting love in our daily lives.

Closing Prayer:

Heavenly Father, we thank you for your unending mercy which is new every morning. As we begin this new year, help us to trust in your faithfulness. Grant us the grace to extend the same compassion and forgiveness to others that you show us. May our lives reflect your great mercy this year. In Jesus' name, amen.

May God bless you always,

Liana

Weekend Message | Trust God With Your Plans for 2026 | FULL EPISODE | Better Together on TBN

Welcome to the Weekend Message! 

It's always our pleasure to bring you quality presentations from some of the best Christian teachers in the world! Each video presentation can vary, but whatever the topic, you can be certain that it will be informative and Bible-based.

This weekend, we present another TBN episode of "Better Together." In "Trust God With Your Plans for 2026" we are encouraged to surrender our plans to God this year. He'll expand our vision, grant peace amidst storms, and fulfill His purpose, leading us to freedom and His overflowing provision, not just our own approval.

Let's welcome new beginnings with faith, as divine trust unveils purpose and destiny amidst uncertainty.

© Better Together on TBN

Key Points:

• Surrender, Not Sacrifice: Surrender your plans to God and open the door to blessings that surpass your own capacity.
• Overwhelmed? Find Hope in God: For those feeling overwhelmed (like single moms), the message is to ask God for hope and allow Him to work in and through them.
• Finding Peace & Freedom: Relying on God provides inner calm during trials, freeing you to live simply and experience His constant supply.
• God's Greater Plan: Trust God to lead you into His purpose, especially when feeling stuck or losing passion.
• Operating from Approval: A related idea is that true freedom and joy come from living out of God's prior approval, not striving to earn it through our actions.

Above all, the episode offers a new year's message of faith, urging viewers to let go of self-reliance and embrace God's guiding hand for a year of multiplied blessings and fulfilled purpose. 

Make sure to set aside time this weekend for a message that promises to provide the inspiration and energy needed for a phenomenal start to the new year! 

May God richly bless you,

~Eve

The Refining Fire: God's Purpose in Suffering

"Trials teach us what we are; they dig up the soil, and let us see what we are made of"  - Charles H. Spurgeon, English Particular Baptist preacher (1834-1892)

Selected Scripture: "Dear friends, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal that has come on you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you."  -1 Peter 4:12 NIV

We often live as though the Christian life should be easy, yet Jesus promised us tribulation in this world. Let's explore why, as Peter says, we shouldn't be surprised by "fiery trials" and how God uses them to refine our faith.

Quick Facts: The Greek term for "fiery trial," πύρωσις (púrosis), is often used metaphorically to describe intense suffering or persecution as a refining process that tests one's faith.

The apostle Peter's message frames enduring hardship for faith as a normal, anticipated component of the Christian life, serving as a test of devotion rather than evidence of God's desertion. In other words, trials aren't surprising; they're expected!

We'll briefly examine this idea. First, trials in our lives serve a specific purpose, a reason for their existence. This purpose is the core of "why" we face these challenges.

• Develops Character: God uses trials to shape and mold us, working through hardships to foster endurance and a mature spiritual walk.
• Deepens Faith: Difficult times serve a divine purpose, teaching us unique lessons that ultimately build our trust in God.
• Reveals God's Glory: God in His sovereignty can use even profound injustice and suffering, such as the crucifixion of Jesus, to achieve His greatest glory and work for our ultimate good

Following that, let's look into "how" one can discover a source of strength amid life's challenges.

• God's Provision: We can be confident that God will not permit us to be tempted beyond our capacity, and He will always offer a way of escape so we can endure it.
• Drawing Near: A commitment to faith practices, such as consistent prayer and scripture reading, provides solace, serenity, and deepens one's reliance on God.
• Shifting Perspective: Recognizing that the testing of faith produces perseverance and completeness. 

Lastly, "what" are the unforeseen benefits or lessons learned from facing adversity? 

• God often provides us not with an easy life, but with opportunities to develop essential qualities like strength, wisdom, and courage through adversity. 
• In moments of weakness and despair, it is God who sustains us and provides the might to overcome.

Matters to Ponder:

• Peter's instruction to his "dear friends" (1 Peter 4:12 NIV) is to expect suffering, not to be surprised by it. Is a smooth life the norm for Christians in your view, or do you expect trials? 
• The passage suggests that challenges in life serve a divine purpose, often acting as a means to test or refine one's faith. In what ways have the "fiery trials" of your life helped to purify your faith or build your spiritual resilience? 

In closing, view the heat as a test of faith, a refining fire to purify you, not a sign of abandonment. Entrust your spirit to Him.

Prayer: "God, thank You for the truth that trials test us for Your good. Help us to see these "fiery" times as purification, not condemnation, and to trust You to refine us. May we live out this hope. Amen."

Blessings and joy to you,

Nataly

Eternal Life: Found in Knowing Him

"A spiritual and saving knowledge of God is the greatest need of every human creature."  - A.W. Pink, English Bible teacher and influential evangelical author (1886-1952)

Question: If knowing God is the key to true happiness, how happy are you right now?

To grow in knowledge of Jesus is to welcome blessings into one's life. Therefore, refusing to deepen one's understanding of Jesus means one is effectively choosing to forgo those blessings.

"Eternal life" is found in knowing Him, and a deeper understanding of Him brings greater happiness. True happiness stems from this understanding and fuels an earnest passion to know Him better (Colossians 1:9-10). 

The Bible indicates that "eternal life" fundamentally refers to having a relationship with God, not just existing forever. Let's explore this for a moment.

Knowing God, Living Eternally

In John 17:3, eternal life isn't just endless existence, but a deep, intimate, experiential knowing (ginóskó) of the only true God and Jesus Christ, signifying a transformative, personal relationship rather than mere intellectual awareness, rooted in fellowship with the divine. 

1 John 5:11-12 says life comes from being connected to Jesus, God's Son. If you have Him in your life, you have life; if you don't, you don't. This is about a real, personal relationship.

Worth a Thought

• How does 1 John 5:11-12 shape your daily choices and perspective?
• How is "knowing" God different from simply "knowing about" God?
• How does the pursuit of knowing God transform our lives here on earth, without waiting for the afterlife?

Moving on, as our knowledge of God deepens, so does our sense of happiness and joy. The more we understand, the more enriching and meaningful our life experience becomes. We should consider this point.

A Deeper Knowing of God, A Greater Joy

• Psalm 16:11, ESV promises that in God's presence, we find "fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore," which we access by drawing closer to Him through knowledge.  
• Psalm 16:11 assures believers that being in God's presence brings everlasting joy and pleasure, accessible by drawing closer to Him.
• 2 Peter 1:3 says God's power gives us all we need for a godly life through knowing Him; understanding this leads to a more fulfilling life.

Worth a Thought

• Do people who have a profound understanding of God tend to be happier? Why or why not?
• What misconceptions (e.g., God as harsh, distant) damage our relationship with God and ourselves? 
• Describe a time when a deeper understanding of God's character deepened your sense of joy.

Finally, a true understanding of Christ is not accidental; it is the result of intentional pursuit driven by a genuine longing for Him, God responds to a hungry heart.

The Essential Ingredient: A Longing Heart

• Psalm 42:1-2, ESV captures this profound yearning: "As a deer pants for flowing streams, so pants my soul for you, O God. My soul thirsts for God, for the living God." God invites a similar, deep passion from His followers.
• Jeremiah 29:13 assures us, "You will seek me and find me, when you seek me with all your heart," highlighting that a sincere, all-in pursuit is necessary to truly know God.
• Jesus teaches in Matthew 5:6 that a deep desire for righteousness leads to being filled, meaning true satisfaction comes from wanting to live righteously.

Worth a Thought

• How do we move from a casual interest in God to a genuine "longing" to know Him better?
• What concrete actions can Christians take to increase their hunger for Jesus?
• What obstacles often get in the way of us seeking a true understanding of Him, and how can we overcome them?

Final Thoughts: To live a happy and meaningful life, strive to deepen your knowledge of Christ, trusting He will guide those who earnestly seek Him. 

Closing Prayer: We are grateful, Lord Jesus, for the promise of eternal life. Help us truly understand how deep your love is and prioritize knowing you above all else, finding our greatest joy and happiness in a deeper relationship with you. Amen. 

May your heart be light and your soul be blessed,

Piper