Walking By Faith | Self-Control, A Signature of Christian Character

"The first and best victory is to conquer self."  - Plato, ancient Greek philosopher of the Classical period (429?–347 BCE)

Self- control (many times translated as "temperance" or "self-discipline") as described in the Bible is a core moral quality, an outward manifestation of God's character, and a signature of Christian character.

The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines "self-control" as: restraint exercised over one's own impulses, emotions, or desires. That is to say, it's the ability to control these things, which can often be done by checking our actions and/or behaviors.

Having said that, self-control is more than just moderation. For the Christian believer, he or she may direct these aspects of human motivation and experience toward God's will. I'd like to share what this looks like:

• First and foremost, one should always seek God's guidance; relying on His power to stand strong against temptation and help in making smart choices.
• Practice patience! I understand that this might be difficult for some, but God does not dance to our tune. We must wait for Him to move first, and not the other way around.
• Look before you leap! Resist the the desire to do something that could cause sin. (Refer to the first two suggestions!)
• Pray, pray, pray! This is the best advantage a believer has. Give God your concerns and let Him handle it. He knows what's best for each of us in any situation.

It's important to add that according to Christian theology, "self-control" is one of nine "fruits of the Spirit." These are visible positive character traits of God's character, and manifestations of the Holy Spirit's guidance emanating from within a believer.

Including "self-control," the Bible names the other "fruits of the Spirit" as: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, and gentleness (Galatians 5:22-23).

There are many examples in the Bible of individuals who exhibited "self-control" when subjected to challenging circumstances. These include Nehemiah (Nehemiah 6), Daniel (Daniel 1:8), and of course Jesus.

Since we base much of what we know on what we see, it becomes glaringly obvious that when it comes to self-control, our world is a flawed model of what it should look like!

Thankfully, self-control is an important aspect of Christian living. Among other things, it helps us to resist temptation, follow a righteous life, and to cultivate and strengthen our moral and ethical qualities.

In closing, "self-control" is much like a wall against temptation and other negative desires or impulses. And while it does not make temptation itself go away, it enables a person to demonstrate control until it passes or is chased off.

Scripture: 1 Corinthians 9:25; Galatians 5:22-23; 1 Timothy 2:9-10; James 1:19-20; 2 Peter 1:5-9

Prayer: "Dear Lord, I pray for the strength to resist temptations and to show self-control in my words, thoughts, and actions. Help me to grow patience and gentleness, and develop a disciplined mind centered on positive, uplifting thoughts, Amen."

Sincerely with the Grace of God,

Sloane