Forgive Others as God Forgave Us

"We need not climb up into heaven to see whether our sins are forgiven: let us look into our hearts, and see if we can forgive others. If we can, we need not doubt but God hath forgiven us." - Thomas Watson

I don't think too many of you would disagree that forgiveness is one of the hardest things we are called upon to do. Some would rather suffer through a root canal procedure than to have to forgive. Although forgiveness can be problematic for many, it is one of the basics of the Christian life (Ephesians 4:32; Colossians 3:13).

We are all too familiar with things that hurt and offend us. We may also be misunderstood. lied to, and even cast off. Who can blame anyone for hesitating to offer forgiveness? However, it is crucial that one learns how to properly respond when confronted with an episode that may provoke anger, resentment, jealousy, etc. If not, this could very easily lead to personal, health, and mental issues down the road.

The root word of forgiveness is "forgive." This can be similar to mean wiping the board clean, pardoning, or canceling a debt or obligation. Instead of trying to get even (revenge) or allowing anger to fester, we seek the forgiveness of the other party. Restoration of the relationship cannot be restored without this.

Let's examine how forgiveness relates to our relationship with Jesus Christ. I don't have to tell that if anyone needs forgiveness it's you and I. Our biggest problem is our battle with sin in our lives. Fortunately, the forgiveness we have in Christ releases us (sinners) from God's penalty. This means the total dismissal of all allegations against us (Romans 8:1).

As such, we should follow God's example of forgiveness when it comes to our forgiveness of others (Ephesians 4:32). Naturally, this doesn't suggest that we place ourselves in harms way, or be accepting of the other person's unflagging, sinful behavior. Not at all. I'm saying that we release them from the offense that was perpetrated against us. Forgive them as God forgave us (Ephesians 4:31-32; Romans 5:8)

The importance of forgiveness in our lives cannot be stressed enough. As a matter of fact, Scripture exhorts us to forgive those who sin against us (Matthew 6:14; Luke 11:4). By refusing to do so only serves to demonstrate bitterness, resentment, and anger toward others. Additionally, none these are characteristics are those of a healthy Christian who is growing and maturing in his faith.

Of course, one must take each instance of injustice on an individual basis. Other factors might contribute to another person's hurtful, or wrongful behaviors such as abuse, trauma, or loss. In this case, they may require additional time to work through their issues.

The best thing we can do for them is to listen, and offer our support. Part of forgiveness is knowing when to step back if that is the best strategy to take. There is no rush here. Patience, time, and space may be just what they need. Above all, allow God to bring them to forgiveness in His own good time.

And finally, regarding forgiveness, God makes a promise to us. When we come to Him, confess our sins, and ask for forgiveness, He will grant it to us through the righteousness of Christ (1 John 1:9). Thus, following His example, we should extend our forgiveness, without any stipulations, to others (Luke 17:3-4).

Scripture: Mark 11:25; Luke 6:27; Proverbs 15:1; Proverbs 15:18; Matthew 5:44

Prayer: Dear Lord, I pray for the forgiveness of my sins, and the humility to offer the same to others who have acted unjustly or dishonestly towards me. Amen

May God bless your day!

Kerri